Varumgender

Varumgender flag

Varumgender or avarumgender is a gender identity in which one uses many terms to describe their gender, but may not identify as them, due to uncertainty, anxiety, or neurodivergency. Varumgender may be used as an alternative term for those whose gender identities are static and do not overwhelm each other. Varumgender is under the nonbinary, multigender and genderqueer umbrellas.

Varumgender traits may include:

• A persons perception of gender fluctuates as new gendered feelings, labels, or terms are identified.
• Labels apply and feel correct for a period of time, before a person is overcome with uncertainty, and the need to find a more suiting label.
• Identification process can fluctuate between changing labels completely, to identifying as multiple genders at once, all due to ones uncertainty.
• Simultaneously experienced genders merge into one gendered feeling, losing and gaining qualities, granting a static like perception and uncertainty towards once applicable labels.
• The need to specify all applicable gendered feelings, yet feeling stress and uncertainty no matter the results.
• Identifying as small points within a genders definition, and feeling uncertainty with identifying as one, due to the rest of the spectrums qualities.
• Uncertainty or repulse towards new labels due to ones neurodivergency, even if one's gender fits all the criteria of a term.

History

Varumgender was coined by Tumblr user chubby-aphrodite in 2017.

Flags

Avarumnonbinary, avarumgirl, and avarumboy flags were created by Tumblr user chubby-aphorodite.

The avarumnonbiinary flag has 11 stripes, which fade from dark purplish magenta into white.

The avarumgirl flag has 11 stripes, which fade from dark pinkish magenta to white.

The avarumboy flag has 11 stripes, which fade from purple to white.

Gallery

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  Varumgender flag
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  Avarumnonbinary flag by Tumblr user Pride-Flags
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  Avarumgirl flag by Tumblr user Pride-Flags
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  Avarumboy flag by Tumblr user Pride-Flags

Ethmology

“Varum” is the nominative, accusative, and vocative neuter case for the word that means “real” or “true.” One can add “a-” at the beginning to change the meaning to “unreal” or “untrue”.